A relationship therapist out of desperation

My husband and I were fighting about anything. You cannot think of anything we couldn't get annoyed about and would escalate. Until we were so desperate that we looked for a relationship therapist.

The therapist soon put the finger on the soar spot. There was a lot of old pain in both of us that we were acting out on each other.

Because we got to know this and were able to support each other in this, we can go along with each other again in a normal and nice way.