I need more and more extreme images to feel excited
I have a sex addiction, quite strong, I need more and more extreme images to feel excited.
Now I met a girl that I really like, but now I notice that, because I got used to and need such extreme images, it is hard for me to feel excited when we are having sex.
Anybody recognizes this?
I am a woman, but I have met men who had the same. I can only advice you to stop watching porn and find other ways to release tension in your body. For example by doing sports.
And with your girlfriend... when you are lucky she might enjoy going into more extreme sexuality, but I can actually recommend something else. Stop paying attention to the images and instead start paying attention to the woman behind the image. Discover the more soft, heartful side of sexuality and learn to enjoy that. It is less exciting but much more fulfilling in the end.
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