My girlfriend is jealous
My girlfriend can be quite jealous. I have a few nice female friends and when I meet them, there are immediately all kinds of stories in her head. In those stories I like them better then her and leave her. Even though we are together for over two years now, she can still have jealousy attacks.
She can also get jealous when I feel attracted to other women or when she things I feel attracted to other women. Of course there is insecurity underneath. Luckily she realizes this and tries to let go of the stories in her head. She would also like to be more relaxed about it, but so far she doesn't manage.
I try to leave it with her as much as possible and don't limit myself (too much). That doesn't always work. When I feel the jealousy (and the claim that goes along with it) I can feel cramped and stressy and then, sometimes, I adapt my behavior, which makes me feel less free.
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