No response to my love declaration
Heyall I am 30 years old and a few years ago I was hurt so much that I didn't have any relationship since then or was with somebody.
This all started when I fell in love with a girl, the only thing I had from her was her phonenumber. I send her a lot of text messages with my love declaration, but I didn't get any response.
This made me feel so insecure that it triggered a lot, I started to neglect myself, also with drugs because I felt so shitty because of this. On some day I suddenly got a call from somebody in my family.
She had met her at work and she made a whole scene there, with staff around with the words that I was stalking her and that she was gonna move in with somebody.
How can you ignore somebody who is mad about you while you were already busy with something new? This happened about 5 years ago, I never got the confidence again to start something with somebody.
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