Our relationship got dragging
My marriage is kind of working, but not really. It got dragging, no fights, no hate. But the fire is out.
I would like to stay for the kids, but I also have the feeling like, it is my life, you know. I would like to enjoy and to have a partner that I really feel good with, Difficult!
I want to go in relationship therapy, but my partner doesn't want.
You could consider individual therapy first to see if there is anything you can change in your relationship. Of course it has a better effect when both partners are willing to go for it, but when your partner doesn't want to it is anyway important to see for yourself how you would like to continue and what you can influence and what not.
Good luck.
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