Still we mirror and confront each other

The start of our relationship was not quite perfect, more like a flight out of the house then a choice for each other, we were both very young and did not have a good example from our parents.

Looking back I can see now that we made a mess the first years untill I was standing with my back against the wall.

Kind of forced by the situation we started working on ourselves. That has been very good and made us who we are now. We broke free of the structures of our family and walk our own path now.

Still we mirror and confront each other and that is often not easy, but I am convinced that when I can face my biggest fears, we will slowly but steadily grow towards healing.

What supports me is the fact that I know different people who chose to seperate but years afterwards are still facing the same problems in themselves. They are defnitely not better off.