This feeling lovesick only goes away when I fall in love again
I am in my 30's and lived already a bit. Also when it comes to relating. I gained and lost already many long and short relationships. It strikes me that since my late 20's, the lovesick is getting heavier. It lasts longer, is more intense and mostly ends only when I find a new love again. Is that normal? Does somebody recognizes this?
Maybe it gets harder because the older you get the more you hope that your new lover is "the one".
It also looks like your happiness is very much dependent on being in a relationship. If you would manage to feel happy also without a relationship, the feeling love sick could maybe also be less long ans strong.
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