We were thinking about divorce and it got worse

We agreed on one thing; that we disagree with each other, but it's the other ones fault. Every question ended up in balming and fighting. Weather the children were around or not, it just kept on going and we didn't see a way out anymore.

We were thinking about divorce and it got worse. During a 'nice dinner' with friends we almost exploded. They managed to calm us down and let us know about this network of relationship therapists. They had had good experiences with it themselves.

This was a golden tip. We are intensivly in a proces with a relationship therapist for some weeks now and our pattorns became soon clear. The more depended I became and started to claim him. The more my husband closed himself off and tried to escape.

We are not ready yet and it is hard work, but we make steps towards connection, openess and trust.