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Choose between two fantastic women

I am a 45 year old man and live together for 20 years now with my girlfriend. We don't have any children. I have a good life. Also with my girflfriend I have a good life and I love her deeply.

Still I fell in love with another woman, and she with me. I feel intensly in love and it feels wonderful to be with her. I also feel a strong connection with her, I allow myself to be vulnerable and open up. She wakes up a strong passion in me.

Now I have to choose between these two fantastic women. Do I choose for a safe, beautiful and good life, or do I choose for the unknown and the passion?


Anonymous
> 2 years ago
last response: 03-11-2022

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I am in similar situation. It eats me. Actually I would like to have both women, because together they are the ideal woman. Very curious to the replies.


Eden
> 2 years ago
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Personally I think it's very natural to be with more then one person. But since such a long time in history we have learned that it is better and safer to stick to only one. This has created a lot of anxiety in everybody and it needs a looooot of love and care to be with two people in a relationship in a healthy and uplifting way. It is almost impossible. Especially because you might not find anybody who agrees with this. Most of the people agree with each other that you should stay with only one.

Y
03-11-2022

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