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Pam | Counseller and Clifton Strength Finders Coach
Introduction
Relationships can bring great joy — and sometimes deep pain. Many couples come to counselling feeling stuck in patterns of misunderstanding, distance, or conflict, and unsure how to bridge the gap between them.
My role as a quaified counseller, is to provide a calm and compassionate space where both partners can feel heard, valued, and understood.
Together, we slow things down and explore what sits beneath the surface — the emotions, needs, and stories that shape how you connect.
I support couples to rebuild trust, improve communication, and navigate challenges such as life transitions, parenting, intimacy, and healing after hurt, including when an affair has impacted the relationship.
As an accredited CliftonStrengths Coach, I also help couples recognise their unique strengths and values, exploring what each person brings to the relationship and what each needs to feel seen, supported, and fulfilled.
I work gently and collaboratively, helping each person find their voice while keeping the relationship at the centre. My approach is grounded in respect, curiosity, and hope that change is possible when we truly listen to one another.
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Pam
Online therapy
Online therapy can be just as effective as in-person work, and I aim to create a safe, supportive environment where you can feel heard and understood.I offer online therapy sessions using the secure, HIPAA-compliant platform Doxy.me, which allows us to connect easily via video from the comfort and privacy of our own spaces.
You don’t need to download any software, I’ll send you a link before each session.
Qualifications and registrations
- B.Couns. Bachelor of Counselling| Provisional Member NZAC (#13407)
- Diploma Psychology and Counselling
- Certificate Grief Counselling
- Clifton Strength Finders accredited Coach
- Person Centered Therapy
- Narrative Therapy
- Attachment Based Therapy
- Solution Focused Therapy
- EFT (Tapping) Emotional Freedom Technique informed
Registrations
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Specialisations
I offer an initial session to see if we’re a good therapeutic match — this is an important part of building a safe and trusting relationship.
Some clients come for short-term support (2–3 sessions), while others may choose longer-term therapy. We’ll review how things are going as we work together, so the pace and length can adapt to your needs.
Sessions can be weekly, fortnightly, or monthly depending on what feels right for you.
Therapies offered
- ✓ Couples coaching
- ✓ Couples counselling
- ✓ Gottman Relationship Therapy
- ✓ Marriage counselling
- ✓ Online relationship counselling
- ✓ Relationship coaching
- ✓ Relationship Counselling
Areas of counselling I can help with
- ✓ Adultery, affair, infidelity
- ✓ Attachment issues
- ✓ Autonomy in relationship
- ✓ Communication problems
- ✓ Cultural differences
- ✓ Divorce & separation
- ✓ Fear of abandonment
- ✓ I want a relationship
- ✓ Insecure in relationship
- ✓ Intimacy issues
- ✓ Jealousy
- ✓ Marriage problems
Fees
Individual sessions 60 min - $110Couples sessions 90 min - $190
I'm a registered WINZ counselling provider, and you may be eligible for funding support through the Disability Allowance, even if you're not currently receiving a benefit. I have the WINZ Disability Certificate Counselling forms, and I can help you with the application process.
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- ✓ In New Zealand, also online
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