>Don't assume anything. Sometimes we just assume a person understands something or we agree on things. Assumptions can cause a lot of problems.
> >>It is really important to discuss all the important things and not just assume anything. So many people end up in a relationship with someone with whom they are completely incompatible because they never asked questions or discussed anything important.
> >>So for example, if you are considering marrying someone, you might want to start talking about important things like whether you both want kids, what your priorities are, what you expect from each other and even some of the seemingly less important things like how do we do Christmas with each of our families.
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