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    >Your ex-partner can response in different ways to your wish to break-up: /> />-Understanding (he/she felt it coming) />-Angry and suspicious (might think there is somebody else) />-Denying (doesn't show emotions, but gives a sad impression) />-Sad (crying) />-Surprised (didn't see it coming and cannot believe it) />-Desperate (begs you to stay, give it another chance) />-Silent (unable to talk about it) /> />This is all his or her own process. You are not responsible for this. What you can do is take the feelings of your ex-partner into account to the extend that you feel good with it. Because it might be that it is hard to take. But it is important that you don't create hope and that you stay with what you want.>
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