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Commitment phobia - Counselling
Are you suffering from a commitment phobia (or fear of commitment, fear of relationships, commitment issues, gamophobia) and would you like to get some help how to deal with this? Therapy and relationship counselling can help.
Find a relationship counsellor in New Zealand:
Ashburton
My name is Anna Arrowsmith and I am a Qualified and Registered Counsellor. I have been in private practice for over 9 years in the Mid Canterbury area.
You're welcome for individual counselling and relationship counselling. I see couples, parents, adults, children and youth.
Auckland
I am an open, caring and positive (Relationship) Therapist. I hold a Bachelor of Science, a Post Graduate Diploma and a Masters Degree in Psychology.
I am trained in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Compassion Focussed Therapy, Relaxation Training, Mindfulness Training, Exposure Therapy and Trauma Focussed Cognitive Behaviour Therapy.
Hi, I’m Tamsin! I offer various therapy and coaching modalities geared towards emotional/psychological wellbeing, relationships, parenting and change. I work with couples using a combination of mindfulness ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), CBT, Solutions Focused Therapy, IFS (Internal Family Systems), Positive Psychology, Attachment Theory and Gottman Couples Therapy.
My aim is to combine the best of research-based methods with a compassionate and non-judgemental, whole-person, attitude.
Hi, I’m Tamsin! I offer various therapy and coaching modalities geared towards emotional/psychological wellbeing, relationships, parenting and change. I work with couples using a combination of mindfulness ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), CBT, Solutions Focused Therapy, IFS (Internal Family Systems), Positive Psychology, Attachment Theory and Gottman Couples Therapy.
My aim is to combine the best of research-based methods with a compassionate and non-judgemental, whole-person, attitude.
You may want to talk to someone to sort things out. You can live a better life and relationship. And you don't have to take on everything alone.你可以生活的更好。你也不必一个人承担一切。
My name is Sara.
I offer clinically informed Relationship Counseling to help individuals and couples experiencing depression, anxiety, addiction, mental illness, trauma, marriage stress, or simply being overwhelmed by life or relationship.
I am an accomplished, skilled and committed (relationship) counsellor who has extensive experience in working with couples and individuals. I support people with relationships, separation, family, parenting, stress, anxiety and personal development.
Experiencing relationship struggles ?
I'm an experienced Counsellor and Family Therapist. My in person sessions are from Highland Park Community House. I can also see you online via zoom.
Blenheim
Kia ora, I'm an Italian therapist and I offer supervision for professionals and trauma specialised therapy for adults and couples. Sessions can be held in English, Spanish, French and Italian.
I am a Blenheim based practitioner and I enjoy working with adults, adolescents and couples, nurturing a collaborative relationship to support you in discovering personal insight and healing in your relationship.
Cambridge
I take pride in fostering personal growth and increased self-awareness within the framework of healthy relationships. My approach prioritises effective communication and emotional well-being, recognizing their crucial role in building and maintaining fulfilling connections.
Through our collaborative efforts, we will work towards shared goals that lead to a more harmonious and satisfying connection. I am dedicated to providing a supportive space for individuals to navigate challenges, fostering a deeper understanding of thems
Christchurch
My name is Christopher. I'm a (relationship and couples) counsellor in Christchurch.
My core focus is to help individuals and couples to recover their authentic and essential Self to live a happier, healthier, purpose-driven, and heart-centred life.
Dannevirke
Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.
Dunedin
Hi, I am a registered counsellor with Dapaanz, also accredited clinical supervisor.
Since 1996, I’ve helped my clients break through the obstacles that seem to be holding them back in life and in their relationship.
I am passionate about the work I do and I am committed in providing beneficial therapy for individual clients and couples.
I work with couples on effective communication so as to broaden their understanding of each other and enrich their relationship.
Feilding
Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.
Hastings
Hi, my name is Troy, I have been working as a social worker/therapist for now 18 years in New Zealand.
I have worked with numerous individuals, couples, and groups of all ages and ethnicities.
I am an open, honest, easy-going, and non-judgemental person. I understand life can be challenging, and difficult. Therefore this is where therapy can be useful.
Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.
Invercargill
I'm a qualified life coach and ensure break-through results in personal issues, marriage, and all kinds of relationship issues such as infidelity, communication problems, intimacy issues, jealousy, relationship anxiety and relationship fights.
Motueka
I provide individuals and couples with a confidential and supportive environment in which to explore their inner world and their relationship. I have over twenty years experience in providing counselling/therapy and mentoring to individuals, couples, families and groups.
Mount Maunganui
Hey! My name is Ben and I am a Master-qualified counsellor who believes mental health is wealth.
I have multiple years working alongside young people, adults and couples that hope to create meaningful change and improve the quality of their lives. I take a whole picture and whole person approach.
Napier
I will be taking new clients from 1 October 2024.
Welcome. Reaching out for professional help can be an important step forward for your own mental well-being and for the health of your relationships, yet it can be a hard step to take. I work in a kind, respectful and collaborative way, providing the space for you to gain insight into your relationship and your life. Relationship psychotherapy and relationship counselling can help you understand and connect with yourself and others.
Nelson
Hi, my name is Jean. I'm a relationship counsellor in Nelson and Stoke. I work with both individuals and couples. I've been counselling since 2008 and have a private practice in Nelson since 2012.
My name is Bec. I use the basis of Imago therapy with couples, which is a unique way of working as the focus is on the space between: the relationship itself, rather than on each individual. Imago teaches a new way to communicate, understand and build one another up within the relationship and creates deeper bonds for long lasting love. Amidst that, I also offer a psychodynamic viewpoint, allowing the process to surface issues and to bring these into the room for couples to work through together.
New Plymouth
My name is Jessica.
I'm a life and relationship coach in new Plymouth. I support individual (starting with adolescents: ages 12 and above), couples, and offer workshop and retreats.
I have the privilege of offering couples coaching and workshops with my husband of 12+ years. He is a registered Social Worker. These services are available Online & In-Person.
Palmerston North
Thank you for considering me to work with you. I am passionate about working with couples, respecting the uniqueness of each person and each relationship.
I work collaboratively in a safe non-judgmental way in a calm environment.
Alongside offering couple counselling sessions I am also offering Couples' Intensives which is NEW for 2024
Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.
Kia Ora,
My name is Sabina. I have experience in working with individuals and couples from all walks of life who are dealing with a wide range of issues.
Paraparaumu
My name is Keri and I am an experienced (Relationship) Counsellor and Human Performance Coach.
Presently operating via Zoom only.
Queenstown
Hi, I’m Olivia. I’m a certified sexuality, love and relationship coach on a mission to help people experience the full beauty that exists in loving and being loved by another.
I work with both individuals and couples on their unique desires around sex, love and relationships.
Raglan
I’ve been helping people and couples create positive results in their lives and relationships, including lifting depression, easing anxiety, resolving trauma and relationship problems, since 2009.
Using a blend of (relationship) counselling, hypnotherapy, NLP and EFT I will provide you with the therapeutic tools, support, and guidance to help you make positive life changes.
Richmond
My name is Rhonda.
I offer Relationship Coaching in relation to narcissistic abuse. I have 3 very specialist services:
1) Narcissistic Abuse Specialist – Trauma Recovery Coach,
2) Somatic Trauma Informed Coach - Brainspotting,
3) Mental Wellbeing Coach
Hi I'm Carolina, and I'm the owner and founder of a wellness centre here in Richmond, Nelson: a sanctuary of healing and transformation. I provide a safe, gentle and nurturing place to explore, clear and heal those aspects of your life that are holding you back from living the very best version of yourself.
Stoke
Hi, my name is Jean. I'm a relationship counsellor in Stoke and Nelson. I work with both individuals and couples. I've been counselling since 2008 and have a private practice in Nelson and Stoke since 2012.
Tairua
My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Takaka
I provide individuals and couples with a confidential and supportive environment in which to explore their inner world and their relationship. I have over twenty years experience in providing counselling/therapy and mentoring to individuals, couples, families and groups.
Taupo
Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.
Tauranga
--- Currently I only offer online counselling ---
In life and in relationships we can all have times that are more challenging and painful than others and (relationship / couples) counselling can provide a safe space to work through those seasons.
I am a (relationship) counsellor who is committed to providing that safe and confidential environment where individuals and couples can feel heard and validated while working through their pain and struggles without judgement.
Te Anau
My name is Monty. I provide counselling to individuals, couples and families in the Fiordland area. You're welcome for individual relationship counselling, family therapy and couples counselling.
Thames
My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Upper Hutt
My name is Athena Hemming. Although I qualified as a psychologist 35 years ago, I now feel my work is more accurately described by the words "Heart and Mind Coach".
Nearly half my work at the moment is with couples dealing with relationships, family and parenting issues. Sometimes all it takes is a couple of hours to get new inspiration.
It is hard to say this stuff about yourself (isn't it?) but as well as bringing a wealth of personal experience to each session, I bring compassion, intuition and a great sense of humour
Waihi
My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Wellington
Overwhelmed by anxiety or depression? Frustrated with those around you? Dissatisfied with where your life and relationships are at?
I work with individuals, couples, children and young people, and can offer you a safe and confidential space to help you explore solutions that are right for you and your particular situation.
Clients come to see me with various difficulties in their lives and relationship like adultery, attachment issues, communication problems, intimacy issues, relationship anxiety.
Hi, I'm Catherine, relationship counsellor in Wellington. You're welcome with a range of issues, including: commitment phobia, communication problems, divorce & Seperation, infidelity & affairs, intimacy issues, marriage problems, relationship anxiety, relationship fights.
Whanganui
Kia ora,
I am an experienced Counsellor and Group Facilitator that has been involved in clinical work for the past 10+ years.
I enjoy working alongside couples who are navigating major life and relationship transitions, coping with mental health challenges in their relationship, or seeking greater self-awareness.
Hi, I'm Catherine, relationship counsellor in Whanganui. You're welcome with a range of issues, including: commitment phobia, communication problems, divorce & Seperation, infidelity & affairs, intimacy issues, marriage problems, relationship anxiety, relationship fights.
Whangarei
Hi, my name is Colin, counsellor in Whangarei. I have over 30 years experience working with individuals (children, youth, adults), families and couples.
We all experience difficulties at times in our lives that cause us to struggle, lose hope and feel like our life is out of control. I believe it is possible to gain the strength needed to face our issues, the hope to move forward and the balance to feel in control of our lives again. Counselling can assist in helping you to overcome life’s hurdles in a positive way.
Online relationship counselling
Are you looking for online relationship counselling? My name is Phil, an experienced relationship counsellor and family therapist in New Zealand (Auckland). I see individuals, couples and families.
If you are at a stage in life or your relationship of feeling that things aren’t quite how they should be. Let me reassure you there is always light at the end of the tunnel.
In life and in relationships we can all have times that are more challenging and painful than others and (relationship / couples) counselling can provide a safe space to work through those seasons.
I am a (relationship) counsellor who is committed to providing that safe and confidential environment where individuals and couples can feel heard and validated while working through their pain and struggles without judgement.
I look forward to sharing with you 30 years of expertise and a versatile approach as a skilled counselor. Proficient in multiple disciplines and styles, offering a personalised effective processes for your unique needs. Experience the difference that seasoned adaptable guidance can make on your journey towards well being.
Online Sex, Love & Relationship Coaching.
Hi, I’m Olivia. I’m a certified sexuality, love and relationship coach on a mission to help people experience the full beauty that exists in loving and being loved by another.
I work with both individuals and couples on their unique desires around sex, love and relationships.
As a warm and passionate Psychologist, I provide non-judgemental and authentic therapy to ensure my clients feel supported and valued. I service couples and individual clients of all age groups. Competent in delivering Emotional Focused Therapy (EFT-Relationship therapy).
I am a Holistic Counsellor, an intuitive & a spiritual mentor. My spiritual awareness and my background in the field of health have benefitted my appreciation for both tangible and mystical perceptions when it comes to physical and mental wellbeing.
My name is Tony, online relationship counsellor.
My clinic is in CBD New Plymouth, I also do zoom online nationwide
I have worked in social services for over 20yrs. I am well skilled in working with individuals or couples to find their direction.
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Therapies offered
- Couples coaching
- Couples counselling
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Family Dispute Resolution
- Gottman Relationship Therapy
- Imago relationship therapy
- Marriage counselling
- Mediation
- Online relationship counselling
- Pre Marriage counselling
- Relationship coaching
- Relationship Counselling
Types of issues
- Addicted to love
- Adultery, affair, infidelity
- Attachment issues
- Autonomy in relationship
- Cheating
- Closed or open relationship
- Commitment phobia
- Communication problems
- Cultural differences
- Divorce & separation
- Emotional infidelity
- Family problems
- Fear of abandonment
- I want a relationship
- Insecure in relationship
- Intimacy issues
- Jealousy
- Love sick
- Marriage problems
- Midlife crisis
- Relationship anxiety
- Relationship fights
- Self love
- Sex addiction
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