Fear of abandonment - Counselling
Are you suffering from fear of abandonment and would you like to get some help how to deal with this? Therapy and relationship counselling can help when you suffer from abandonment issues.
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Relationship counsellors that offer support with fear of abandonment


Rating 5 out of 5
The average rating of all relationship counsellors that offer support with fear of abandonment is 5 out of 5 stars based on 5 reviews.

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Kia ora , my name is Ellen. I practice Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples. I’ve been a Counsellor for about 25 years, working with couples, individuals, and families.
Ashburton

My name is Anna Arrowsmith and I am a Qualified and Registered Counsellor. I have been in private practice for over 9 years in the Mid Canterbury area.
You're welcome for individual counselling and relationship counselling. I see couples, parents, adults, children and youth.
Auckland

I work with adults, couples, young people and families. Tailored relationship counselling that focuses specifically on YOU - what works for you and your relationship.
I have practiced in a lot of women’s pre/post natal, menopausal stages for women.
I am also an ADHD centric counsellor and offer specialist ADHD couples therapy.

Hi, I’m Tamsin! I offer various therapy and coaching modalities geared towards emotional/psychological wellbeing, relationships, parenting and change. I work with couples using a combination of mindfulness ACT (Acceptance and Commitment Therapy), CBT, Solutions Focused Therapy, IFT (Internal Family Systems), Positive Psychology, Attachment Theory and Gottman therapy.
My aim is to combine the best of research-based methods with a compassionate and non-judgemental, whole-person, attitude.

I work with couples looking to change their relationship and always invite couples to do the following:
Imagine your relationship being one where you both feel valued, safe, connected, autonomous and in each other’s care. Imagine being a two-person system with shared values and goals.

Hi there, I’m Deanna and I have a real passion for helping individuals, couples and families through the many challenges they face in a way that best works for each individual. I work with adults, teens, children and their parents, supporting clients through meaningful change towards living a more satisfying and happier life.

I offer coaching and counselling for couples struggling or wanting to deepen their relationship.

--- I only offer online counselling --- My name is Phil, an experienced relationship counsellor family therapist, and coach in Auckland. I see individuals, couples and families. I work from Birkdale, Remuera, and via skype.
If you are at a stage in life or your relationship of feeling that things aren’t quite how they should be. Let me reassure you there is always light at the end of the tunnel.
Blenheim

I help you find solutions for any issues you may be experiencing, whether they are related to your relationships or any other problem you may have.
My work is eclectic and I choose the type of counselling/therapy in consultation with you, to suit you and your issues. My mission is to support people in creating relationships that are more secure, joyful, and fulfilling.

I am a Blenheim based practitioner and I enjoy working with adults, adolescents and couples, nurturing a collaborative relationship to support you in discovering personal insight and healing in your relationship.
Christchurch

My name is Christopher. I'm a (relationship and couples) counsellor in Christchurch.
My core focus is to help individuals and couples to recover their authentic and essential Self to live a happier, healthier, purpose-driven, and heart-centred life.
Dunedin

I am passionate about the work I do and I am committed in providing beneficial therapy for individual clients and couples.
I work with couples on effective communication so as to broaden their understanding of each other and enrich their relationship.
Hamilton

Hi, my name is Michelle.
I am a registered clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience. I draw on therapeutic skills learnt over the past 15 years and work from a holistic perspective to assist individual clients and couples with various life challenges. Coming to terms with the past, improved coping in the present and empowering you for the future is something I look forward to assisting you with.
Hastings

Hi, my name is Troy, I have been working as a social worker/therapist for now 18 years in New Zealand.
I have worked with numerous individuals, couples, and groups of all ages and ethnicities.
I am an open, honest, easy-going, and non-judgemental person. I understand life can be challenging, and difficult. Therefore this is where therapy can be useful.
Invercargill

I'm a qualified life coach and ensure break-through results in personal issues, marriage, and all kinds of relationship issues such as infidelity, communication problems, intimacy issues, jealousy, relationship anxiety and relationship fights.
Mapua

Hi my name is Jo.
I work with couples and individuals offering skills to discover and maintain effective life-long communication, using aspects of Imago Relationship Theory, Psychodynamic and Attachment theories.
Motueka

Hi my name is Jo.
I work with couples and individuals offering skills to discover and maintain effective life-long communication, using aspects of Imago Relationship Theory, Psychodynamic and Attachment theories.
Napier

Welcome. Reaching out for professional help can be an important step forward for your own mental well-being and the health of your relationships, yet it can be a hard step to take. I work in a kind, respectful and collaborative way, providing the space for you to gain insight into your relationship and your life. Relationship psychotherapy and relationship counselling can help you understand and connect with yourself and others.
Nelson

My name is Mark, relationship counsellor in Nelson.
Imago relationship therapy is a form of couples counseling and coaching that helps those in committed relationships work out their misunderstandings, reduce conflict, and rediscover ways to bond, communicate, and find common ground.

My name is Bec. I use the basis of Imago therapy with couples, which is a unique way of working as the focus is on the space between: the relationship itself, rather than on each individual. Imago teaches a new way to communicate, understand and build one another up within the relationship and creates deeper bonds for long lasting love. Amidst that, I also offer a psychodynamic viewpoint, allowing the process to surface issues and to bring these into the room for couples to work through together.

Hi, my name is Jean. I'm a relationship counsellor in Nelson and Stoke. I work with both individuals and couples. I've been counselling since 2008 and have a private practice in Nelson since 2012.
New Plymouth

My name is Jessica.
I'm a life and relationship coach in new Plymouth. I support individual (starting with adolescents: ages 12 and above), couples, and offer workshop and retreats.
I have the privilege of offering couples coaching and workshops with my husband of 12+ years, Travis. He is a registered Social Worker. These services are available Online & In-Person.
Palmerston North

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Thank you for considering me to work with you. I am passionate about working with couples, respecting the uniqueness of each person and each relationship.
I work collaboratively in a safe non-judgmental way in a calm environment.
Paraparaumu

My name is Keri and I am an experienced (Relationship) Counsellor and Human Performance Coach.
Presently operating via Zoom only.
Queenstown

Hi, I’m Olivia. I’m a certified sexuality, love and relationship coach on a mission to help people experience the full beauty that exists in loving and being loved by another.
I work with both individuals and couples on their unique desires around sex, love and relationships.
Raglan

I’ve been helping people and couples create positive results in their lives and relationships, including lifting depression, easing anxiety, resolving trauma and relationship problems, since 2009.
Using a blend of (relationship) counselling, hypnotherapy, NLP and EFT I will provide you with the therapeutic tools, support, and guidance to help you make positive life changes.
Richmond

My name is Rondha.
Next to and/or in combination with relationship coaching I offer 3 very specialist services:
1) Somatic Trauma Informed Coach - Brainspotting,
2) Narcissistic Abuse Specialist – Trauma Recovery Coach,
3) Mental Wellbeing Coach
Rotorua

Kia ora
I'm a wholistic therapist/counsellor for relationship challenges in Rotorua.
I am experienced in working with individual clients and couples on a wide range of issues
Including: infidelity, autonomy in relationship, relationship anxiety, divorce, insecurity, intimacy issues, relationship challenges
Stoke

Hi, my name is Jean. I'm a relationship counsellor in Stoke and Nelson. I work with both individuals and couples. I've been counselling since 2008 and have a private practice in Nelson and Stoke since 2012.
Tairua

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Tauranga

In life and in relationships we can all have times that are more challenging and painful than others and (relationship / couples) counselling can provide a safe space to work through those seasons.
I am a (relationship) counsellor who is committed to providing that safe and confidential environment where individuals and couples can feel heard and validated while working through their pain and struggles without judgement.
Te Anau

My name is Monty. I provide counselling to individuals, couples and families in the Fiordland area. You're welcome for individual relationship counselling, family therapy and couples counselling.
Thames

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Upper Hutt

My name is Athena Hemming. Although I qualified as a psychologist 35 years ago, I now feel my work is more accurately described by the words "Heart and Mind Coach".
Nearly half my work at the moment is with couples dealing with relationships, family and parenting issues. Sometimes all it takes is a couple of hours to get new inspiration.
It is hard to say this stuff about yourself (isn't it?) but as well as bringing a wealth of personal experience to each session, I bring compassion, intuition and a great sense of humour
Waihi

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Wellington

Hi I'm Simon and I provide professional (relationship) therapy, coaching and education to people that want to free themselves from the issues they are experiencing in their life and relationship.
I encompass elements of Rapid Transformational Therapy (RTT), NLP, CBT, Psychotherapy, Neuroscience, Neuro Plasticity and Hypnotherapy

Hi, I'm Catherine, relationship counsellor in Wellington. You're welcome with a range of issues, including: commitment phobia, communication problems, divorce & Seperation, infidelity & affairs, intimacy issues, marriage problems, relationship anxiety, relationship fights.
Whanganui

My office is based is Whanganui and I also offer online relationship counselling.
I work with couples teaching them ways to improve their romantic relationships.
Relationship counselling isn’t just for married people; cohabiting couples and LGBTQ people can also benefit.

Hi, I'm Catherine, relationship counsellor in Whanganui. You're welcome with a range of issues, including: commitment phobia, communication problems, divorce & Seperation, infidelity & affairs, intimacy issues, marriage problems, relationship anxiety, relationship fights.
Online relationship counselling

Are you looking for online relationship counselling? My name is Phil, an experienced relationship counsellor and family therapist in New Zealand (Auckland). I see individuals, couples and families.
If you are at a stage in life or your relationship of feeling that things aren’t quite how they should be. Let me reassure you there is always light at the end of the tunnel.

As a warm and passionate Psychologist, I provide non-judgemental and authentic therapy to ensure my clients feel supported and valued. I service couples and individual clients of all age groups. Competent in delivering Emotional Focused Therapy (EFT-Relationship therapy).

Online Sexuality, Love & Relationship Coaching.
Hi, I’m Olivia. I’m a certified sexuality, love and relationship coach on a mission to help people experience the full beauty that exists in loving and being loved by another.
I work with both individuals and couples on their unique desires around sex, love and relationships.

Hi, my name is David. I'm relationship coach in Auckland.
I offer non-judgemental and effective counselling and coaching, helping you gain insights and teaching you the skills to help you deal with what you are facing. My specialisation is uncovering the underlying dynamic affecting the relationship and offering specific skills and strategies that can lead to a more satisfying and meaningful relationship.

My name is Tony, online relationship counsellor.
My clinic is in CBD New Plymouth, I also do zoom online nationwide
I have worked in social services for over 20yrs. I am well skilled in working with individuals or couples to find their direction.
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Therapies offered
- Couples coaching
- Couples counselling
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Family Dispute Resolution
- Gottman Relationship Therapy
- Imago relationship therapy
- Marriage counselling
- Mediation
- Online relationship counselling
- Pre Marriage counselling
- Relationship coaching
- Relationship Counselling
Types of issues
- Addicted to love
- Adultery, affair, infidelity
- Autonomy in relationship
- Cheating
- Closed or open relationship
- Commitment phobia
- Communication problems
- Cultural differences
- Divorce & separation
- Emotional infidelity
- Family problems
- Fear of abandonment
- I want a relationship
- Insecure in relationship
- Intimacy issues
- Jealousy
- Love sick
- Marriage problems
- Midlife crisis
- Relationship anxiety
- Relationship fights
- Self love
- Sex addiction
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Olivia was gentle, warm, supportive, and engaging
Adam | Hastings:
Troy was incredible for my partner and I
Sarah and Matt:
We feel so much more clarity in our communication
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