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Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
EFT, developed by Dr. Sue Johnson, is practised around the world and is recognised as an effective, evidenced-based couples and family therapy.
Find a relationship counsellor who offers emotionally focused therapy / EFT Couples / EFT Counselling in New Zealand.
Blenheim

Kia ora, I'm an Italian therapist and I offer supervision for professionals and trauma specialised therapy for adults and couples. Sessions can be held in English, Spanish, French and Italian.
Christchurch

COUNSELLING & COACHING FOR COUPLES STRUGGLING TO COMMUNICATE & CONNECT.
Are you lost in a cycle of triggering and hurting each other? Feeling like you can no longer communicate or understand each other? Feeling distant and disconnected spiralling towards separation or loss of your family unit?
Hamilton

I am a clinical psychologist with 29 years of experience, originally from South Africa and practicing as a clinical psychologist in New Zealand for the past six years.
My interests include:
* Relationship Challenges
* Problems with Anxiety -- Panic Disorder, GAD, OCD, PTSD, etc.
* Bereavement
* Personality Challenges
* Stress
* Intimacy issues, especially women's challenges (e.g., menopause, infertility, etc)
Hastings

Hi, my name is Troy, I have been working as a social worker/therapist for now 18 years in New Zealand.
I have worked with numerous individuals, couples, and groups of all ages and ethnicities.
I am an open, honest, easy-going, and non-judgemental person. I understand life can be challenging, and difficult. Therefore this is where therapy can be useful.
Invercargill

I'm a qualified life coach and ensure break-through results in personal issues, marriage, and all kinds of relationship issues such as infidelity, communication problems, intimacy issues, jealousy, relationship anxiety and relationship fights.
Nelson

Paihia

You're welcome for individual and couples counselling.
I am committed to providing a safe and understanding environment where you (both) can explore your thoughts and feelings. Let’s work together towards your well-being in your life and relationship.
Palmerston North

Thank you for considering me to work with you. I am passionate about working with couples, respecting the uniqueness of each person and each relationship.
I work collaboratively in a safe non-judgmental way in a calm environment.
Alongside offering weekly/fortnightly Couples' Therapy I am offering Couples' Intensives
Queenstown

Hi, I’m Olivia. I’m a certified sexuality, love and relationship coach on a mission to help people experience the full beauty that exists in loving and being loved by another.
I work with both individuals and couples on their unique desires around sex, love and relationships.
Tairua

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Tauranga

I believe that realistic choice-making can support your (relationship) counselling, and I consider it a privilege to journey with you in a safe and confidential environment to process what can be difficult emotions.
Thames

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Timaru

I am experienced in a wide range of issues with much success as a couples coach, Counsellor, and a transformational Life Coach. You have all the answers inside you, and my role is to help you find the keys to unlock those answers and find your direction towards the life and relationship you dream of living. It is my honour to walk the journey alongside my clients as they find their way to healing. If you can dream it, you can do it.
Waihi

My name is Joseph. I'm a counsellor, relationship counsellor and life coach. You're welcome for individual counselling & coaching, couples counselling and family therapy.
Waikanae

My experience includes working with couples and relationships, anxiety, trauma, low mood and depression. I also work extensively with older clients (over 60s) and those who have experienced negative father issues.
Wanaka

🌿 Welcome to Counselling Wanaka – Your Path to Emotional Freedom Starts Here
At Counselling Wanaka, we believe in the power of connection, compassion, and change. Whether you're feeling overwhelmed, anxious, lost, or stuck, you're not alone – and healing is possible.
Located in The Hub, just minutes from central Wanaka, our peaceful space offers a safe, supportive environment where you can explore your challenges and start creating the life you want to live.
Wellington

My experience includes working with couples and relationships, anxiety, trauma, low mood and depression. I also work extensively with older clients (over 60s) and those who have experienced negative father issues.
Online relationship counselling

In life and in relationships we can all have times that are more challenging and painful than others and couples counselling can provide a safe space to work through those seasons.
I am a couples counsellor who is committed to providing that safe and confidential environment where individuals and couples can feel heard and validated while working through their pain and struggles without judgement.

Currently available for NEW CLIENTS
Kia ora , my name is Ellen. I practice Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) for couples. I’ve been a Counsellor for about 25 years, working with couples, individuals, and families.
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Therapies offered
- Couples coaching
- Couples counselling
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Family Dispute Resolution
- Gottman Relationship Therapy
- Imago relationship therapy
- Marriage counselling
- Mediation
- Online relationship counselling
- Pre Marriage counselling
- Relationship coaching
- Relationship Counselling
Types of issues
- Addicted to love
- Adultery, affair, infidelity
- Attachment issues
- Autonomy in relationship
- Cheating
- Closed or open relationship
- Commitment phobia
- Communication problems
- Cultural differences
- Divorce & separation
- Emotional infidelity
- Family problems
- Fear of abandonment
- I want a relationship
- Insecure in relationship
- Intimacy issues
- Jealousy
- Love sick
- Marriage problems
- Midlife crisis
- Relationship anxiety
- Relationship fights
- Self love
- Sex addiction
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