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Tony | Relationship Counselling

Relationship Counselling - New Zealand - Tony
Online Couples & Marriage Counselling
New Zealand
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Online Couples & Marriage Counselling

My name is Tony, face to face or online relationship counsellor.
To rebuild a relationship or marriage that may have unravelled, you first must be prepared to tear down the old foundations and build some new ones.  This will need true authenticity, honesty, trust and most of all, improved communication skills.

Even if you’re not a good communicator, I’ll guide you.  You will have homework, and that is the area of most importance.

You get out what you put in, as its not just enough coming to see me, its what you take away and apply into your daily life that proves most effective.

Some reality checks about marriage/relationship counselling 

• The end result is ultimately determined by both of you
• Unhelpful behaviours that impact on any progress will be explored

• Emotional regulation for each individual will be explored
• The goal may shift from saving the relationship, to parting ways in a healthy manner…this happens

• Views will change
• Emotional distress will be uncovered
• Your communication will improve 

About me

I have worked in social services for over 20yrs. I am well skilled in working with individuals or couples to find their direction.

I have been involved with complex mental health, addictions, co-existing problems, high risk family harm and management of community agencies and teams.

I am

  • well skilled with difficulties that require a well-balanced approach. I have worked with many ethnicities, ages & stages, victims and perpetrators of violence.
  • non-judgmental, because I sincerely believe people want to have a better happy life. It just sometimes, we don’t know how to.
  • also an artist and musician, and will use art therapy as a process to release and open the doorway to healing.

  • a member of DAPAANZ and adhere to their code of ethics.

I believe in a holistic approach, which covers all aspects of your life.
Would you like to know more or make an appointment, feel free to contact me.


Online therapy

I offer online counselling and therapy with ZOOM video call.

Qualifications and registrations

  • Diploma in Life Coaching (2yrs NZQA)
  • Diploma in Mental Health (2yrs NZQA)
  • Diploma in Applied Addictions counselling (2yrs NZQA)
  • Diploma in Clinical Hypnotherapy

  • DAPAANZ Full clinical registration



$130 for individuals and couples

Low income, can be negotiated

Availability (Opening hours)

Monday Closed
Tuesday Flexible online
Wednesday Face to face/online flexible
Thursday Face to face/online flexible
Friday Flexible online
Saturday Closed
Sunday Closed


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